A couple, whose sole attempt at IVF treatment on the NHS failed, criticized the system for its disparity in providing cycles of treatment across different regions, labelling it as an “unfair lottery,” as some areas offer three cycles while others only provide one.
Facing the daunting task of raising over £9,000 for another chance at a private practice, Sophie Sternschuss-Howes, 27, from Bursledon, Hampshire, shared her struggles with anxiety and depression, exacerbated by three years of unsuccessful attempts to conceive with her husband Darren, 35.
In January 2024, Sophie underwent an NHS-funded IVF round, but it yielded no success. Tests later suggested that Sophie’s Anti-Mullerian Hormone (AMH) levels might be a contributing factor.
However, their frustration heightened when they discovered that Hampshire residents were entitled to only one NHS-funded IVF cycle, unlike other regions offering two or three cycles, as recommended by the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE).
Expressing bewilderment over the unequal treatment across regions, Sophie and Darren emphasized the necessity for equal opportunities nationwide, highlighting the profound mental health toll of infertility.
Last year, Sophie’s mental health took a turn for the worst.
“Last May, Sophie was really struggling with her anxiety and depression because of this,” said Darren. “She did attempt to take her life, and you know, it’s all because of the stress and the strain from this. “It affects people really badly with their mental health and they (the NHS) don’t see that day to day. “It’s very tough, in particular on women.”
Determined to pursue parenthood, despite the setbacks, they turned to private treatment, facing a hefty price tag of £9,000 per cycle.
Their journey, marred by emotional turmoil, prompted Sophie to share their story on YouTube, aiming to shed light on the emotional toll of infertility. With time ticking away, they initiated a fundraiser on GoFundMe, garnering significant support but stressing the urgency of their situation. Despite challenges, they remain resilient, advocating for equitable access to fertility treatment.
