{"id":4304,"date":"2023-09-08T22:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-09-08T22:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wandadoty.com\/deal-breakers-in-a-relationship-9-red-flags-to-watch-out-for\/"},"modified":"2023-09-08T22:00:00","modified_gmt":"2023-09-08T22:00:00","slug":"deal-breakers-in-a-relationship-9-red-flags-to-watch-out-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wandadoty.com\/deal-breakers-in-a-relationship-9-red-flags-to-watch-out-for\/","title":{"rendered":"Deal Breakers In A Relationship: 9 Red Flags To Watch Out For"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<br \/><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/mindbodygreen-res.cloudinary.com\/image\/upload\/c_crop,x_0,y_0,w_1731,h_1156\/c_fill,w_700,h_400,g_auto,q_85,fl_lossy,f_jpg\/org\/y08jndvsjkj1qkc52.png\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mindbodygreen-res.cloudinary.com\/image\/upload\/c_crop,x_0,y_0,w_1731,h_1156\/c_fill,w_700,h_400,g_auto,q_85,fl_lossy,f_jpg\/org\/y08jndvsjkj1qkc52.png\" \/><\/noscript><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Deal breakers in a relationship are the long term qualities, behaviors, and values someone displays that do not align with your own views, values, and long term desires, according to licensed psychotherapist\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/openingthedoorspsychotherapy.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">Babita Spinelli<\/a>. In other words, she says, they&#8217;re our &#8220;non-negotiables,&#8221; or the specific things we absolutely will not tolerate in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There are an individual\u2019s <em>unique<\/em> dealbreakers that are specific to what you want personally, and there are <em>red flag<\/em> dealbreakers that are violations, such as physical abuse, verbal and emotional abuse, and substance abuse,&#8221; Spinelli adds.<\/p>\n<p>Typically, though, the most common deal breakers fall within the categories of finances, children, roles in the relationship, beliefs, communication patterns, sex drives, career aspirations, and location, Spinelli tells mindbodygreen.<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s essential to get clear on what your deal breakers are before you commit to someone, because while all relationships require some compromise, &#8220;it\u2019s important to understand whether the compromise feels mutual or could lead to resentment,&#8221; Spinelli notes.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindbodygreen.com\/articles\/deal-breakers-in-a-relationship\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Deal breakers in a relationship are the long term qualities, behaviors, and values someone displays that do not align with your own views, values, and long term desires, according to licensed psychotherapist\u00a0Babita Spinelli. 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